In response to: http://sweatnosweat.blogspot.com/2008/12/this-just-in-after-launching-our.html
I gotta' say Adam, you certainly demonstrated more grace under pressure than I would have... you evil, religion-hating, secular business-man, you! ;)
I've heard this argument a million times. I heard it about my own wedding! Here's a nice little anecdote for you.
Random Relative: So, you gonna' have a big church wedding, right?!?
Me: No. We discussed it, and decided it wasn't important to us. We're having an outdoor wedding at a national park.
RR: Well, isn't it supposed to be a SPIRITUAL event?
Me: Can't it be a spiritual event in the unfettered beauty of the forest? Isn't God everywhere? If other people want to have Church weddings, good on them- they deserve whatever makes them happiest and feel the most connected- it's just not for me. Besides, we have many friends with many different beliefs, and we want to be inclusive- we invited them because we love them. In a way, it should be their wedding, too.
RR: Aren't you sort of cutting the baby in half, like Solomon? Ruining the spirituality to please too many people?
Me: First of all, are you comparing me having an outdoor wedding to cutting a baby in half? Secondly, Solomon did that to test the two women. He actually left it to them, and the true mother, the one who truly loved the baby, refused to cut it in half. Think of my wedding as the baby, and my loved ones as the mothers- they wouldn't dare try and harm the baby in order to divide it in half, because they know and love both Ryan and I. Our wedding is inclusive because anyone who really loves us knows that it's important to have as a whole, and our whole wedding involves many people, who we wouldn't dare split away with something as silly as our minor differences.
Above all, this season is about humanity, as Christ was about humanity. If this guy gives you any more grief, remind him of Solomon, and remind him that like a wedding or a holiday greeting, humanity doesn't work when it's split in pieces. If he really has humanity as his first vested interest. he will focus on keeping it safe, and keeping it unified. There's no compromise in that. You're simply acting out of love for the thing you love most.
Wednesday, December 10, 2008
Monday, November 24, 2008
Advertising in a recession... yuck
In response to: http://sweatnosweat.blogspot.com/2008/11/ack-to-work.html
Ugh, trying to sell ethically made products in an economically stagnant time- I do not envy you, Adam. I was actually discussing this with friends, earlier this week who all said they’d like to shop ethically for clothes, but feel lost on how to do so. One friend said he feels risky trying to buy something he’s never tried on, and has only started buying American Apparel since it became available at a local boutique:
(http://www.myspace.com/cactusfloweronkirkwood)
People aren’t necessarily coming into a random store looking for ethically-made clothes, but as soon as they figure out it is ethically made, it seals the deal. Maybe you could get some grass-roots promoters going out to local boutiques (especially in college towns) and trying to get them to carry some of the T’s? The only overhead would be paper for fliers and handbills. If the T’s had their own little display area or where in a window-front, people could look at the fliers while browsing. Hearing something is ethically-made is pretty intriguing to most shoppers in my town.
Band promotion is another big one. A lot of bands I know use ethical garments to screen print on. Almost every band I’ve seen recently has some sort of ethically-made T-shirt to sell, and they generally advertise as such. When everyone is already there, and expecting to buy a T-shirt anyway, why not pay an extra two bucks to support a union or co-op?
There seems to be a lot of great suggestions already up, and I’m sure I’ll come up with some more as time goes on. In the mean time, keep the faith.
Ugh, trying to sell ethically made products in an economically stagnant time- I do not envy you, Adam. I was actually discussing this with friends, earlier this week who all said they’d like to shop ethically for clothes, but feel lost on how to do so. One friend said he feels risky trying to buy something he’s never tried on, and has only started buying American Apparel since it became available at a local boutique:
(http://www.myspace.com/cactusfloweronkirkwood)
People aren’t necessarily coming into a random store looking for ethically-made clothes, but as soon as they figure out it is ethically made, it seals the deal. Maybe you could get some grass-roots promoters going out to local boutiques (especially in college towns) and trying to get them to carry some of the T’s? The only overhead would be paper for fliers and handbills. If the T’s had their own little display area or where in a window-front, people could look at the fliers while browsing. Hearing something is ethically-made is pretty intriguing to most shoppers in my town.
Band promotion is another big one. A lot of bands I know use ethical garments to screen print on. Almost every band I’ve seen recently has some sort of ethically-made T-shirt to sell, and they generally advertise as such. When everyone is already there, and expecting to buy a T-shirt anyway, why not pay an extra two bucks to support a union or co-op?
There seems to be a lot of great suggestions already up, and I’m sure I’ll come up with some more as time goes on. In the mean time, keep the faith.
Saturday, November 8, 2008
Hope, Criticism and Patriotism
In response to http://sweatnosweat.blogspot.com/2008/11/with-god-on-our-side.html
Yes, despite my Midwestern stoicism and cultural propensity towards pessimism, I teared up. I screamed and jumped up and down with my sister-in-law. I kissed my husband and we had a little “terrorist fist-bump”. I called my mom. I called my best friend. We all marched down to the local townie bar, screaming and cheering, feeling as close to perfect strangers as we’d ever felt. I hugged the guy who runs my local, independent, esoteric video rental joint- I’m pretty sure he doesn’t know my name and I sure as hell can’t remember his, but he hugged back- with the gusto of victory; the sort of pure victory that can only come from a bloodless revolution. We were (are) happy, and we were (are) hopeful. I’m not too jaded for that. And, yes, I thought I heard the Dylan song, only to have it confirmed by a buddy at the bar, later that night- or, early the next morning… we had a lot of celebrating to do.
The next morning, however, the irony of the song choice struck me. Seriously? “With God On Our Side”? That song is about fervent nationalism backed up by religion, being used as an excuse for war! For example:
When the Second World War came to an end
We forgave the Germans and we were friends
Though they murdered six million in the ovens they fried
The Germans now too have God on their side.
And then this happy little verse:
But now we got weapons of the chemical dust
If fire them we're forced to then fire them we must
One push of the button and a shot the world wide
And you never ask questions when God's on your side.
Probably some of Dylan’s more bitter lyrics. A second generation American Jewish man whose family fled from the Ukraine and Lithuania to escape anti-Semitism- I’m not saying his bitterness isn’t founded, it just made me think. Did Obama or his campaign pick that tune on purpose? Was the irony supposed to strike me as poignant, or did someone just miss the point? It reminded me of Reagan using Springsteen’s “Born in the USA”- a bitter song about Vietnam vets returning to a country that forgot their sacrifice, as a patriotic anthem to his campaign. The liberal Springsteen requested that the conservative politician stop using it, as a hero of the downtrodden and working class, he was not a fan of Reagan.
I was pretty surprised no one picked up on it, and tried to spin it into Obama being ashamed of his country or secular, and therefore amoral- not that I agree. On the contrary, I think that recognizing your countries’ flaws and imperfect history is the first step to actively improving it- the real measure or patriotism. If you want to talk about irony, consider Dylan’s hero- Woody Guthrie, who wrote “This Land is Your Land”. Everybody seems to remember the lines they sang in kindergarten:
This land is your land, this land is my land
From California to the New York Island
From the Redwood Forest to the Gulf Stream waters
This land was made for you and me.
What people don’t remember are the oft skipped over and formerly banned lyrics:
There was a big high wall there that tried to stop me;
Sign was painted, it said private property;
But on the back side it didn't say nothing;
That side was made for you and me.
In the squares of the city, In the shadow of a steeple;
By the relief office, I'd seen my people.
As they stood there hungry, I stood there asking,
Is this land made for you and me?
Like “God On Our Side” and “Born in the USA”, “This Land is Your Land” was meant as a voice for the disillusioned Americans who know our country is far from perfect. Even the most sincere of patriotic anthems have bitter irony. Most people know that “This Land is Your Land” was meant as a response to what Guthrie saw as the saccharin-sweet “God Bless America”, which was on the radio at the time he wrote “This Land…”, having just been written by Irving Berlin. What people don’t know is that Irving Berlin’s real name was Israel Baline, a Russian Jewish immigrant who adopted his new, gentile name aware that our “land of opportunity” had some serious anti-Semitism that might impede his professional career. How’s that for irony?
I guess what I’m trying to say is that I’m not forgetting our flaws and all the work we have to do as a nation. Dylan, Springsteen, Guthrie and Berlin were all patriots, and I am too. I just want to be the sort of patriot who doesn’t blindly accept my victory and forget the hard road ahead, or the brutal past behind me. I am filled with hope, but also high expectations. And so, I’ll leave you on a final note from another Midwesterner, the great Robert Zimmerman (Hebrew name Shabtai Zisel ben Avraham):
So now as I'm leavin' I'm weary as Hell
The confusion I'm feelin' ain't no tongue can tell
The words fill my head and fall to the floor
If God's on our side he'll stop the next war.
Amen to that, Bob.
Yes, despite my Midwestern stoicism and cultural propensity towards pessimism, I teared up. I screamed and jumped up and down with my sister-in-law. I kissed my husband and we had a little “terrorist fist-bump”. I called my mom. I called my best friend. We all marched down to the local townie bar, screaming and cheering, feeling as close to perfect strangers as we’d ever felt. I hugged the guy who runs my local, independent, esoteric video rental joint- I’m pretty sure he doesn’t know my name and I sure as hell can’t remember his, but he hugged back- with the gusto of victory; the sort of pure victory that can only come from a bloodless revolution. We were (are) happy, and we were (are) hopeful. I’m not too jaded for that. And, yes, I thought I heard the Dylan song, only to have it confirmed by a buddy at the bar, later that night- or, early the next morning… we had a lot of celebrating to do.
The next morning, however, the irony of the song choice struck me. Seriously? “With God On Our Side”? That song is about fervent nationalism backed up by religion, being used as an excuse for war! For example:
When the Second World War came to an end
We forgave the Germans and we were friends
Though they murdered six million in the ovens they fried
The Germans now too have God on their side.
And then this happy little verse:
But now we got weapons of the chemical dust
If fire them we're forced to then fire them we must
One push of the button and a shot the world wide
And you never ask questions when God's on your side.
Probably some of Dylan’s more bitter lyrics. A second generation American Jewish man whose family fled from the Ukraine and Lithuania to escape anti-Semitism- I’m not saying his bitterness isn’t founded, it just made me think. Did Obama or his campaign pick that tune on purpose? Was the irony supposed to strike me as poignant, or did someone just miss the point? It reminded me of Reagan using Springsteen’s “Born in the USA”- a bitter song about Vietnam vets returning to a country that forgot their sacrifice, as a patriotic anthem to his campaign. The liberal Springsteen requested that the conservative politician stop using it, as a hero of the downtrodden and working class, he was not a fan of Reagan.
I was pretty surprised no one picked up on it, and tried to spin it into Obama being ashamed of his country or secular, and therefore amoral- not that I agree. On the contrary, I think that recognizing your countries’ flaws and imperfect history is the first step to actively improving it- the real measure or patriotism. If you want to talk about irony, consider Dylan’s hero- Woody Guthrie, who wrote “This Land is Your Land”. Everybody seems to remember the lines they sang in kindergarten:
This land is your land, this land is my land
From California to the New York Island
From the Redwood Forest to the Gulf Stream waters
This land was made for you and me.
What people don’t remember are the oft skipped over and formerly banned lyrics:
There was a big high wall there that tried to stop me;
Sign was painted, it said private property;
But on the back side it didn't say nothing;
That side was made for you and me.
In the squares of the city, In the shadow of a steeple;
By the relief office, I'd seen my people.
As they stood there hungry, I stood there asking,
Is this land made for you and me?
Like “God On Our Side” and “Born in the USA”, “This Land is Your Land” was meant as a voice for the disillusioned Americans who know our country is far from perfect. Even the most sincere of patriotic anthems have bitter irony. Most people know that “This Land is Your Land” was meant as a response to what Guthrie saw as the saccharin-sweet “God Bless America”, which was on the radio at the time he wrote “This Land…”, having just been written by Irving Berlin. What people don’t know is that Irving Berlin’s real name was Israel Baline, a Russian Jewish immigrant who adopted his new, gentile name aware that our “land of opportunity” had some serious anti-Semitism that might impede his professional career. How’s that for irony?
I guess what I’m trying to say is that I’m not forgetting our flaws and all the work we have to do as a nation. Dylan, Springsteen, Guthrie and Berlin were all patriots, and I am too. I just want to be the sort of patriot who doesn’t blindly accept my victory and forget the hard road ahead, or the brutal past behind me. I am filled with hope, but also high expectations. And so, I’ll leave you on a final note from another Midwesterner, the great Robert Zimmerman (Hebrew name Shabtai Zisel ben Avraham):
So now as I'm leavin' I'm weary as Hell
The confusion I'm feelin' ain't no tongue can tell
The words fill my head and fall to the floor
If God's on our side he'll stop the next war.
Amen to that, Bob.
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